Saturday, July 6, 2013

So the reason I decided to write about bedroom behavior is because most women, or men, try too hard or not at all to please their man when it comes to sex. If you have a man, there are a couple things you need to pay attention to.
First, men like adventure. Giving it up to your man the same way, the same style, the same venue gets old pretty quickly. It might seem like all we want is to get into your pants, and although this is true, we also want to do it in a fun way. Climaxing isn't caused by clock work routine ladies and gentlemen.
Second, men also like to be controlled. Sometimes at least. Having your man do all the heavy lifting when it comes to love making is a major turn off. We want to know that you're into it. Men are like dogs, no pun intended. We only want to please our partners in bed, but you have to tell us what you want once in a while. And then show some gratitude after. But don't pat us on the head, that's a little bit too literal.
Spontaneity is a MAJOR factor when it comes to sex with a man. We don't care where we do it, in the car, class, bathroom, horse carriage; we are always ready to go. And spontaneously initiating sex will definitely score you an A+ with your man.
Tips and tricks. It's evident that men like, no LOVE sex. I would recommend learning different kinds of styles that you could use with your man in the bedroom. Also find out whether your man is open to toys and maybe anal play. Hey don't cringe your face, ever heard of prostrate orgasms? You'd be surprised how well your man would receive this. No pun intended. But be sure to ask him first, just shooting your fingers or toys up there would surprise the poor fella.
Lastly, put some love and heart into it. Men want to feel affection and appreciation also. It is very important, even in sexual stimulation. But don't just scream out 'I love you' when you first have sex with that new guy. This tends to be a turn off. He might say it back, but do you really think he means it?
So these are just some of the things that I think would definitely interest your guy.
Leave a comment below if you think any different.

3 comments:

  1. I liked the anal play part. Do straight guys really like this?

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  2. It is not every day that I have the possibility to see something like this.. Relationship

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